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March 8, 2008 by Domestic Goddesque 2 Comments

A Cold War

I have contracted a cold from the visiting Mothership, which has sunk to my chest. The growing bump prohibits any over-the-counter medications, so I have been forced to take to my bed with a large box of Kleenex, laptop, Sky Movies and plenty of fluids. It all feels very 1950’s- laptop and Sky Plus aside naturally-and not a little dull. It’s amazing how little there is to watch on television given that I have a choice of 1000 channels. I am in the throes of becoming addicted to 1980’s shows like Diagnosis Murder and Quantum Leap. I am onto watching repeats of Property Ladder and Top Gear as I have seen every episode. I have discovered Crufts in a really big way and am worried about how I will cope when it is over. I have even been watching The News(gasp!)I confess that I have also become my nan, and have begun talking back to the reporters. It started off with little comments about what the stylist was thinking when she put Plinky-Plonky in that outfit, graduated to smirks at the comments made by Joe Public when interviewed for Breakfast television, and has peaked at full-on TV rage this week with the news that RAF personnel have been told not to wear their uniforms into nearby Peterborough. It seems ‘locals’ have been threatening and abusive towards the service men and women because they are unhappy that we are still ‘at war’ with Osama (or whatever. You might have notice I paraphrase the news to suit my own needs.)

I grew up in the army, in the 1980’s, when there was still a USSR, a Yugoslavia and a big-haired Jon Bon Jovi. The Middle East was way down on the list of concerns when there was still a very real threat of Nuclear War. Everyone’s dad wore a uniform- something we thought was normal, then found very confusing when we came back to the UK and found that other dads wore suits to work- and we had a heli-pad behind the house. We waved at UN vehicles as they passed us. We used to practice evacuations. That was our life, we were proud of it, and our family were proud of us. The army was seen as essential- its presence in various places around the world made the people-at-home feel more secure. My grandfather even changed the habit of a lifetime when he voted for Maggie in order to protect the armed forces and my father’s job. People were proud to serve in the Armed Forces, proud of their work, and proud to have members of the family serve their country.

It seems people have different priorities now. They don’t view the Armed Forces with respect that they used to, and I find it saddening. There are still people alive who remember wars that shaped World History; who know that, but for our Army, Navy and Air Forces, the map of Europe would look radically different now. And whilst there is no clear and present danger to us at the moment, it doesn’t mean that there won’t be one in the future. These small-minded people may disagree with ‘us’ being in Iraq and Afghanistan, they may want their boys home, they may think that this is not our war. And it may not be. But the men and women who serve their country are not the ones who make these decisions. They are the ones that do their jobs, just like you and I; they follow orders; they survive in unpleasant conditions. They live their jobs 24 hours a day for months on end and if they are lucky, they come home unscathed. If they are not, they come home in a box. They deserve more respect.

This is only my opinion.

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Comments

  1. Kelly says

    March 10, 2008 at 08:46

    Thanks for visiting (I shall pay NMO later!) Rosie, and hope you feel better soon.

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  2. Rosie says

    March 9, 2008 at 21:55

    I agree totally! One positive thing Prince Harry has done is (hopefully) made younger generations think about the outstanding work done by our armed forces.
    I have been watching the news this week and I’m in bed with a cold as a result. So depressing – it’s a chicken and egg sitation!
    Arrived on your blog via NunheadMum, and it’s wonderful, and great too to find another British blog.

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